I went to a club last night with some friends and had a pretty good time. I’m not really into club/ party life but I don’t mind it once in a while. I really noticed last night how I am a no-shit type of person. I have no intention of flirting or showing any interest in anyone and in a club situation that can come off as hostile – even if I think I’m being polite. Everyday interaction is not the same as club interaction. Meh – not my scene. I don’t care much for immature guys who are looking for an easy lay. One guy actually asked me if I loved my fiance. Umm…wtf? Why would I have said yes if I hadn’t. I’ve had men ask me before if I loved my fiance (boyfriend at the time) or if was willing to give him up. Yeah…because I would throw away a healthy stable relationship for some random guy at a bar/club. Why do some guys think that is flattering? As if my self worth is so low that I need to feel important by some guy showing interest in me. No thanks. I don’t need validation from randoms to know that I am worth a hell of a lot more than an easy lay.